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~ A peek into my mind ~

Your local bi gal

So I can’t remember if I ever gathered the courage to post it but I remember writing a blog post last year about being bicurious. It was just before I set up this blog so I’m not sure how many of you guys had read it, if I even posted it! But that was back in October 2017. Then after much contemplation, I realised I really was bi. Just before my 18th birthday no less, people on social media quickly found out because why not tell a bunch of strangers and internet friends?? They’re probably the most open minded people I will ever know.

I'm bi!

Telling people in real life though? That was a struggle. My boyfriend already knew because he was the one I discussed it all with to figure it all out and he was chill with it. I kept quiet about it for a while and then I decided I was ready to tell some close friends. I tried to do it in person but I’m sure we can all agree that would be terrifying. So I decided to go down the messaging route. It went well too! One guy was like cool and then two other friends just had a million questions about being bi and that was all.

Would I ever tell my parents? No, never. They don’t know I have a boyfriend and they’d be furious over that, I don’t need to also add that I have the hots for women. I’m good, thanks.

I just felt like pride month was the perfect time to write this post so here we are! I am open to doing a bi q and a post, leave me questions on twitter and I’ll compile them into a post or curious cat if you want to be anonymous!

Until next time 🙂

Venturing into a better life

Going vegan & Becoming a minimalist

So the past few days I’ve been really getting into Madeleine Olivia’s videos on YouTube, which I would highly recommend by the way, and she talks about minimalism and veganism. Two things that intrigued me but seemed unreachable at this point in life. As I’m still living at home and all.

But now I feel like I can maybe still achieve them, I realised I’m a very all or nothing kind of person which isn’t the most useful mindset to have sometimes. It would make more sense to start slowly, build up better habits and be far more likely to succeed. Instead of throwing myself into it all and more than likely fail because I couldn’t keep up with such a massive change in lifestyle.

At first I was trying to think of a way to encompass being a vegan and a minimalist into one word because they seem interlinked if you’re considering the environmental side of things, which I am. But I didn’t know how to so we’ll stick with just saying both the names until I come to a better idea. So here’s a quick break down of what I’m planning on doing, I’ll probably have more detailed posts going up about the individual topics later on.

 

So first with minimalism I’d just like to clarify, when I say minimalism I don’t mean the aesthetic of all white homes with barely anything in them. I just mean living a slightly less cluttered life, with fewer useless possessions taking up space that I don’t have. Plus, a large part of it for me is helping the environment. Buying less stuff =  creating less waste. Simple really!

My main aim is to attempt to reduce how much plastic I throw away because I’m sure all of you have heard one thing or another about how much plastic is in our seas and the horrific effects it’s having on marine life. It shocked me when I realised just how much plastic we use and dispose of every single day. So I’m hoping to take steps to reduce that, more to come on that. I’ve also heard a lot about fast fashion and its less than ideal impact which I will try to write a post about in the future, that’s a whole other story that I don’t fully have the resources to delve into right now.

I’ve already filled a large box full of my stuff that I plan to donate, I will be writing a post about in the near future I’m sure. It was such a freeing experience and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten rid of that much stuff in one go before!

And then, becoming a vegan. *gasp* I’ve gotten negative reactions before when I’ve mentioned that I wanted to go vegan but they hardly bother me now. I’m becoming more and more aware of the issues within the farming industry, and the huge impact it has on the environment. Going vegan will just be my own little way of helping the earth. I don’t have all my aims and goals set out for this one just yet, but it’s something I’ll be working on soon!

I don’t think I’ll be having a blogging schedule for a while, I still have exams and all but I’ve been feeling inspired which was really needed so I’ll post when I can!

Until next time 🙂

A fresh start

Starting over is sometimes necessary but always scary.

I had another blog that some of you may know about, I’m sure a lot of you came to this blog from that one! So why did I start a new blog? I just wasn’t satisfied with it, I was making all these plans to monetise my blog but I realised that I couldn’t possibly do that when even I didn’t enjoy my own content!

I was stuck in a bit of a cycle of trying to improve my posts but ending up making them worse and then those new ones didn’t fit in with my old ones, it was a bit of a mess really! So I just felt like a fresh start was necessary. Now onto the introductions!

So for those of you who don’t who I am, and have decided to follow this brand new blog  of mine:

My name is Kirithika, I’m 17 and I live in England. And I’m not gonna lie, I do love tea. I want my blog to be a lifestyle blog, but of course that’s fairly vague so I’ll try and break it down a little so you’ll know what to expect from me. Seeing as I’m still in school, some of my posts will have something or other to do with school! I’ve started getting into baking so maybe there’ll be some of that just ~sprinkled~ in from time to time. I’m not super mega into makeup but I do like it so maybe expect some of that? It’ll all be affordable makeup seeing as I’m not about the spending £30 on an eye-shadow palette life, really do not have the funds for that! I also do love books but I don’t really write book reviews so yeah?

And aside from all of that, because really that’s what a lot of teen lifestyle blogs consist of, I’m going to branch out into more ~interesting topics~ such as sexuality, sex, mental health and all that other fun stuff that people will only whisper about. Because I don’t think any of those things should be considered shameful, and so I will talk about them shamelessly.

That’s some of what to expect but I don’t want to plan it all out too excessively because then I won’t really want to go along with it, if you get what I mean. I am currently doing blogtober on my old blog, so I will come back to this blog once I am completely done with that. November onwards! I cannot wait!! 😀

Until next time 🙂

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